Novena to Find a Spouse
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The married vocation and family life are great gifts from God. Entering into the married vocation with a holy spouse is a beautiful and good goal.
But it is not always easy to find a holy spouse. Searching for a person with whom to build a holy marriage and family can be very difficult in our modern world. Many single people struggle for years to find a holy person who is a suitable marriage partner for them.
Our modern society does not usually emphasize preparation for a holy marriage, and true connection with other faithful people can be very difficult. All who are searching for a good spouse should ask God to direct their search and to grant fruit to their efforts.
Let’s offer prayers in the Novena to Find a Spouse, that God will help us and all who are seeking to find a holy spouse!
Why Pray the Novena to Find a Spouse?
You can pray the Novena to Find a Spouse if you are just beginning to search for someone to date and marry. You can also pray the Novena to Find a Spouse if you have been searching for a spouse for a long time. Or you can use this novena to seek help in deciding how to go about searching for a spouse.
You can also use the Novena to Find a Spouse to pray for someone you know who is searching for a spouse and is having difficulty finding someone suitable. Or you can pray this novena for all single people who are seeking a holy spouse for themselves.
Novena to Find a Spouse Prayers
Novena to Find a Spouse - Day 1
In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
Amen.
Lord God, we thank You and praise You for the gift of marriage. We ask You to help us find a virtuous spouse, so that we may have a holy and happy married life.
It is not always easy to understand Your will for our lives. You often surprise us and show us that You know better than we do for our lives. We are in great need of more openness to Your will, so that we may answer Your call and find the path You wish for us.
Please help all who are seeking a holy spouse, and we particularly ask You today to help us grow in openness to Your will in our life!
Help us to grow in all virtues that are necessary for holiness. Help us to grow in love for You each day.
And I especially ask in this novena (mention your intentions here).
Lord, hear our prayers!
In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
Amen.
Novena to Find a Spouse - Day 2
In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
Amen.
Lord God, we thank You and praise You for the gift of marriage. We ask You to help us find a virtuous spouse, so that we may have a holy and happy married life.
Finding a good spouse is sometimes very difficult in our modern world. It can be tempting for us to give up working and praying to find a good spouse. But You have told us that we are to continually ask You for what we want and need in prayer.
Please help all who are seeking a holy spouse, and we particularly ask You today to help us to grow in persistence in prayer!
Help us to always rely on You for all that we need in our lives. Help us to grow in holiness at every opportunity You give us each day.
And I especially ask in this novena (mention your intentions here).
Lord, hear our prayers!
In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
Amen.
Novena to Find a Spouse - Day 3
In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
Amen.
Lord God, we thank You and praise You for the gift of marriage. We ask You to help us find a virtuous spouse, so that we may have a holy and happy married life.
You call all of us to a deep friendship with You in our lives. You often use trials and difficulties to help us grow closer to You. As we go through the difficulties and even sufferings of searching for a good spouse, You can lead us to a deep intimacy with You.
Please help all who are seeking a holy spouse, and we particularly ask You today to help us to grow in true intimacy with You!
Help us to make use of all sufferings for good in our lives. Help us to always seek growth in our relationship with You.
And I especially ask in this novena (mention your intentions here).
Lord, hear our prayers!
In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
Amen.
Novena to Find a Spouse - Day 4
In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
Amen.
Lord God, we thank You and praise You for the gift of marriage. We ask You to help us find a virtuous spouse, so that we may have a holy and happy married life.
It can be very hard to trust You in the midst of such difficult things as searching for a spouse. We are in great need of trust in You as we endure the setbacks and sufferings that often come with the search for a holy person to marry.
Please help all who are seeking a holy spouse, and we particularly ask You today to help us to grow in our trust in You!
Help us to make growth in virtue and holiness our top priority in life. Help us to never allow sufferings or difficulties to deter us from being Your faithful servants.
And I especially ask in this novena (mention your intentions here).
Lord, hear our prayers!
In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
Amen.
Novena to Find a Spouse - Day 5
In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
Amen.
Lord God, we thank You and praise You for the gift of marriage. We ask You to help us find a virtuous spouse, so that we may have a holy and happy married life.
The search for a spouse can be full of difficulties and trials. Sometimes we must practice courage in order to face the potential of rejection and pain as we search for a holy person to marry. You are able to help us practice the courage necessary in this search.
Please help all who are seeking a holy spouse, and we particularly ask You today to help us to grow in the courage we need!
Help us to do all things out of love for You in our lives. Help us to do all we can to grow in friendship with You each day.
And I especially ask in this novena (mention your intentions here).
Lord, hear our prayers!
In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
Amen.
Novena to Find a Spouse - Day 6
In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
Amen.
Lord God, we thank You and praise You for the gift of marriage. We ask You to help us find a virtuous spouse, so that we may have a holy and happy married life.
Our years of singleness can be very lonely and can often feel like they have no purpose. But You are able to use our single years profitably. Through holy friendships in our lives, You often help us to grow and to prepare for our future vocations.
Please help all who are seeking a holy spouse, and we particularly ask You today to help us to grow in holy friendships with others in our lives!
Help us to seek to do Your will in all aspects of our lives. Help us to do all we can to be Your holy servants each day.
And I especially ask in this novena (mention your intentions here).
Lord, hear our prayers!
In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
Amen.
Novena to Find a Spouse - Day 7
In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
Amen.
Lord God, we thank You and praise You for the gift of marriage. We ask You to help us find a virtuous spouse, so that we may have a holy and happy married life.
Many marriages in our world today are greatly lacking in holiness and virtue. It can be very difficult for us and for all single people to prepare well for a holy marriage if we lack good examples of how to practice virtue in the married vocation.
Please help all who are seeking a holy spouse, and we particularly ask You today to help all marriages to grow in holiness and virtue!
Help us to do all we can to serve You worthily each day of our lives. Help us to always answer Your call to holiness and intimacy with You each day.
And I especially ask in this novena (mention your intentions here).
Lord, hear our prayers!
In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
Amen.
Novena to Find a Spouse - Day 8
In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
Amen.
Lord God, we thank You and praise You for the gift of marriage. We ask You to help us find a virtuous spouse, so that we may have a holy and happy married life.
Our modern society is not always good at promoting genuine connection with others. It can often be difficult to truly get to know others as people and to form real friendships with them. Genuine connection with others can greatly help us in finding a good future spouse.
Please help all who are seeking a holy spouse, and we particularly ask You today to help us to be able to genuinely connect with others in our lives!
Help us to grow in friendship with You each day. Help us to grow in love for all other people out of love for You.
And I especially ask in this novena (mention your intentions here).
Lord, hear our prayers!
In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
Amen.
Novena to Find a Spouse - Day 9
In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
Amen.
Lord God, we thank You and praise You for the gift of marriage. We ask You to help us find a virtuous spouse, so that we may have a holy and happy married life.
Our single years and the search for a spouse are often very difficult. There can be a lot of suffering as we undergo rejection and disappointments throughout our search for a holy person to marry. You can help us to endure this suffering and to offer it to You.
Please help all who are seeking a holy spouse, and we particularly ask You today to help us to be able to offer all of our sufferings in union with You!
Help us to always persevere through every trial we face in our lives. Help us to grow in virtue at every opportunity.
And I especially ask in this novena (mention your intentions here).
Lord, hear our prayers!
In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
Amen.